Pastor Mark and Grace answer this question during a live Q&A. Just because you're single doesn't mean you can't be loving your wife right now—even if you're still waiting to meet her. One practical idea? Write letters to your future wife in a journal to let her know how you're growing, how you're praying for her, verses you're meditating on, etc. and then give them to her when you get married.
This clip is excerpted from the sermon "Sex: God, Gross, or Gift?" part 6 of the Real Marriage sermon series. It was preached by Pastor Mark Driscoll at a Real Marriage Tour event at Crossroads Christian Church in Corona, California and released online on February 20.