The question in the above video might be the most frequent relationship question I get. I think a lot of time the question is asked with a wrong presupposition. When we stop looking for the one, and start training ourselves to be "the one", we begin the path of joy. A lot of times that whisper in our heart that is looking for "the one" to ultimately satisfy us is there to point us to Jesus. Only He can truly satisfy and give life. When that is understood then human relationships get put in right perspective and begin to actually flourish more.